Ephesians 4:11 - Know the State of Your Flock

By Rev Charles Seet

Preached at / Published Life BPC 8 am Service, 2001-12-30

Text: Ephesians 4:11; 1 Peter 5:2

This morning we conclude our series of messages this quarter on the Dynamics of Spiritual gifts by looking at the gift of pastoring. This gift is found in the list of gifts mentioned in Ephesians 4:11 and is the special God-given ability to assume long-term responsibility for the spiritual welfare of a group of believers. It is the responsibility of caring for them, protecting them from error, and feeding them with the Word of God, until they reach maturity in Christ. 

This gift is particularly given to the pastors and elders of a church. But in our present context today, someone who has a leadership role in the church may also have this gift. And this includes those who are deacons, Bible study leaders, Sunday school superintendents and teachers, leaders in the youth and children's ministries aswell as fellowship group and NBC leaders. All these need to have the gift of pastoring to serve well.

While the gift of pastoring is mentioned in Ephesians 4:11, the requirements that must be met for this leadership role are not given here, but are in found in 1 Peter 5:2, where the apostle Peter wrote: 'Feed the flock of God which is among you, taking the oversight thereof, not by constraint, but willingly; not for filthy lucre, but of a ready mind.' We may observe a few things here about the role of leadership in the church. The first is that our Lord Jesus likened it to the task of shepherds who look after sheep. The verse we are looking at can actually be translated: 'Shepherd the flock of God.' So the meaning is not to be restricted to just providing food alone, but to providing all things that are essential for the care and well-being of the sheep. In the 23rd psalm (aka the shepherd's psalm), which most of us I think are familiar with, this care is described as making the sheep lie down in green pastures, leading them beside the still waters, restoring their souls, leading them in the paths of righteousness, protecting them as they walk through the valley of the shadow of death, preparing a table before them for good nutrition, and anointing them with oil for healing. 

I. The Requirements for this Spiritual Gift

A. Great Fear and Care - For One's Accountability to God

The shepherd's responsibility is to take care of the sheep. But the point in our verse that makes this responsibility even greater for the shepherd is that the sheep are actually not his own sheep, but the flock of God. It is God's sheep he is looking after, and not his own. He therefore has to be most careful about the way he handles the sheep, because God is going to require him to give an account. 

Those of us who are in positions of leadership must always keep this in mind: The people who have been entrusted to our care are God's people. It would be very wrong for a leader for use or abuse the people under his care for his own ends. In fact, anyone whose motive is for his own material gain should not be in a position of church leadership at all. You will notice that Peter says this in our verse: 'taking the oversight thereof, not by constraint, but willingly; not for filthy lucre,...'

It saddens our heart whenever we hear of church leaders who abuse the flock under their care. I have heard of a pastor who became so filled with a sense of his own importance that he convinced his church to buy him a new expensive car - a Volvo, because he said - it is not right that their pastor should be seen driving a Japanese car! A church leader who does things like that will one day have to answer to God for abusing His sheep. 

B. Great Love For Christ and His Flock

In some churches, leadership positions are even seen as coveted offices and during elections, there would be much struggle for power and influence. But in contrast to all that, churches where God's word is faithfully obeyed are churches where leaders provide sacrificial care for the flock of God, out of a soul-consuming passion to love the Lord and His flock. It is interesting to observe that there is a very obvious connection between this verse and what Christ commanded Peter three times in John 21:15-17 - 'Feed my sheep.' Let us turn our Bibles to this passage (John 21:15), as I believe it will shed new light on the verse we are studying. 

During this post-resurrection appearance of Christ, our Lord asked the apostle Peter in v.15 'Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou Me more than these? He saith unto Him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love Thee. He saith unto Him, Feed my lambs. He saith unto him again the second time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my sheep. He saith unto him the third time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me? Peter was grieved because He said unto him the third time, Lovest thou Me? And he said unto Him, Lord, thou knowest all things; thou knowest that I love Thee. Jesus saith unto him, Feed my sheep.'

If you turn your Bibles back now to 1 Peter 5:2 and read it you can imagine that as the same apostle Peter penned these words under inspiration, his mind must have recalled these very same words that Jesus spoke to him that day: 'Do you really love Me, Peter? If you do, then take care of My sheep.' Love becomes the reason why we should feed the flock. The more we love Christ, the more we will be willing to care for the sheep that He has entrusted to our care. And the extent to which we serve and care for the sheep becomes a true measure of how much we actually love our Lord Jesus Christ. 

Take a careful look at our text in 1 Peter 5:2 again and you will see this same idea being expressed: 'Feed the flock of God which is among you, taking the oversight thereof, not by constraint, but willingly; not for filthy lucre, but of a ready mind.' From this we can see that loving service is a service that is marked by a disposition of willingness and an attitude of having a ready mind. The words 'ready mind' here means, eagerly and enthusiastically. Love becomes the driving force that motivates us to whole-hearted, dedicated service and care of God's people. The responsibilities of shepherding the flock no longer become a burden we dread to carry, but rather, an opportunity that we want to make full use of, because we love to do it for the Lord's sake. 

To summarize the lessons we can learn from this verse, there are two important attitudes that leaders should have in regard to feeding the flock. The first is the attitude of great fear and care because it is God's flock that we are looking after. The second is the attitude of love for Christ, that will make us care for the flock willingly and with much enthusiasm. How does this apply to us? It calls for those of us who are leaders to take a good look at ourselves, and find out if we have these attitudes in our hearts, as we serve the Lord. Remember that with the Lord, the attitudes of the heart are always of greatest importance. A person may boast a lot about how much he has done and how much help he has given to take care of others, but the question he must always ask himself is 'Who did I do it for? Was it truly for the Lord, or was it really for myself - to boost my own ego?'

II. The Responsibilities of this Spiritual Gift 

Once we have settled these basic essential requirements we must then go on to the responsibilities of feeding the flock. What are some basic principles of caring for God's people? The most comprehensive instruction on this is found not in 1 Peter, but in the pastoral epistles. And that's where we will be focussing our attention for the rest of this message. In the pastoral epistles we will find that the first responsibility for those who have the gift of pastoring is to:

A. Know the Flock Well

Christ himself said in John 10:27 - 'My sheep hear my voice, and I know them and they follow Me.' Let us now turn to the book of I Timothy, one of the pastoral epistles, and look at what Paul instructs Timothy to do in taking care of the members of his church. Reading from v.1 of chapter 5 - 'Rebuke not an elder, but entreat him as a father; and the younger men as brethren; the elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity.'

What can we notice here? I believe that we can plainly see, just from the use of the family terms Paul used whenever he spoke about dealings with church members (father, mother, brother, sister), that leaders are to care for church members in the same loving and affectionate way that members of a family care for one another. 

What lessons can we learn from this? That leaders need to build good relationships with the members. This requires good social skills; the ability to become a friend to people; it requires refined sensitivity, understanding, and the ability to sympathize with them, to weep with them that weep, to rejoice with them that rejoice. It requires the development of tactfulness and gentleness. It also requires the willingness to make oneself always available to others. But above all, it requires a great capacity to love people. 

Some time ago a brother in Christ shared with me, why he admired the leadership in a certain church. He said that he had noticed how the elders and deacons there were warm and would make an effort to get to know new faces, to invite people to their homes, to cook a meal for them and be present whenever they could at church meetings and programs. If there was a camp going on that was organized by one of the fellowship groups, they would try their best to drop in on one evening just to fellowship with the campers. 

It is not easy for leaders to be like that, because it means a lot of commitment physically, emotionally and socially. But in the long run making the effort of building good relationships that way will greatly facilitate the ministry to God's people. If you are going to be an effective leader in caring for the flock, then you must commit yourself to acquiring these things. Let us now go on to the second responsibility for those who have the gift of pastoring. This is to 

B. Deal With The Members of God's Flock According to Their Characteristics

This means you cannot use the exact same approach to care for every individual. We observe this principle in I Timothy 5:1 where Timothy is told to treat the elderly men in his church as fathers, the elderly women as mothers, the younger women as sisters and the younger men as brothers. Notice that there is a difference in the way that Timothy to to treat each group. It would not be right for instance, for Timothy to treat the elderly men as brothers, or to treat the younger women as mothers. Can you imagine what would happen if he did that? 

Here we learn the principle that when we shepherd the flock we cannot deal with one and all in exactly the same way. The church we are in is not homogenous in its make-up. Our ministry would be a whole lot easier in many ways if our church was composed of people who are all exactly alike: The same in terms of needs, sensitivities, preferences, and maturity. But this is simply not the case. In fact we recognize this by the fact that we provide different fellowship groups for our people like the Adults fellowship, Young Adults Fellowship, Youth Fellowship, etc. 

A church is a mixture of various types of people, and a good leader is one that is able to understand and minister to all of them well. In other words, we must learn to 'be all things to all men.' We must be able to switch channels (so to speak), depending on who we are dealing with. Different types people need to be approached in different ways, and yet without showing partiality or favoritism. To complicate matters, the number of types of people are not just limited to different age groups or genders, but even to social rank and class - each of them have different kinds of needs and face different kinds of temptations which a good leader would be mindful of, when dealing with them. Each of them needs to be dealt with, with a different agenda. 

Let us look at v.4 - Here, Paul tells Timothy how to deal with the widows in the church, and he forewarns Timothy that it is unwise to deal with older widows and younger widows in the same way. A widow should be at least 60 years old to qualify for church support. 

Let us turn to 6:1,2 - Here Paul tells Timothy the objectives he should have for those in the church who are slaves, and he understands that a believing slave may have the tendency to despise a believing master. 

These various groups found in the church are to be handled differently, and none are to be left out. And a leader cannot pick and choose the kind of members he wants to deal with and become specialists in shepherding only that one group, neglecting the rest. He has to be like a doctor who is G.P., a General Practitioner, not a specialist who is skilled in dealing with only one type of age group or only one type of ailment. If we do not recognize this fact, we will be in for trouble! 

Once we realize that we need to care for such a great variety of people, we may proceed to look at each one, as described in this epistle.

1. Dealing with Elderly Members

Let us turn back to 5:1- Here we notice that the very first group mentioned by Paul is the elderly. This is perhaps one area in which many young leaders tend to be weak - this only means we who are young need to be extra-sensitive and careful. I remember the time I was trying to tell an elderly man of his need for salvation (I used the same approach that I used with everyone else), he replied quite indignantly: 'Young man, I have eaten more salt than you have eaten rice!' What do you do when you face this response? How do you show an elderly person that something is not right with him without giving him the idea that you are trying to be wiser than him? By speaking with great humility, sensitivity, carefully choosing your words and evaluating how they would be received. 

It takes great skill, but with the right approach, we will be able to earn their attention and minister to their needs. Furthermore, the more we show ourselves to be mature in our thinking and in our conduct, the more readily those who are elderly would be willing to respect and consider carefully what we have to say. With the elderly that respect has to be earned. A father or mother would listen to a son who is good and responsible rather than to a son who is impulsive, irresponsible and foolish. It is easier for a parent to listen to his or her child when he realizes that his child deserves to be listened to, because he is reliable, dependable, and very considerate. 

2. Dealing with Lady Members

Having seen how we should minister to the older members of our church, let us proceed now to consider another group: the younger women. In I Timothy 5:2 Paul commands Timothy to treat them as sisters, but with an important difference: and that is, with ALL PURITY. The last phrase of this verse is sometimes overlooked by leaders, and this can have dangerous consequences. Sometimes a young lady burdened wih a big problem comes and relates her problems with much grief: a male church leader rightly sympathizes with her, feels for her and longs to comfort her the way he would comfort anyone else. But special restraint is in order here, not because we want to be cold and unfeeling to our beloved sisters in Christ, but because social propriety demands wisdom in dealing with them so that our motives will not be misunderstood by them or by onlookers within the church and outside the church. Needless trouble can result from carelessness in this matter. So be careful. 

3. Dealing with Needy Members (5:3-16)

We proceed now to the next group that is mentioned: the widows in the church. Widows represented a large and obvious group of people at that time who needed help. In those days it was extremely difficult to be a widow. It meant being helpless, desolate and very poor. Widows were easily hurt and mistreated. Unscrupulous men often took advantage of them and robbed them, on the pretext of helping them. Together with orphans, widows were among the most pitied people because of their plight. 

In our churches today, widows are still a needy group, but in many ways they are a lot better off than the widows of ancient times. Being more educated, they are able to be independent, plus there are laws protecting them, as well as social institutions that have been set up to help them. I believe what is more valuable to us now from this passage of scripture is the principle behind the prescriptions given here for the widows, And that principle is that: the church has an obligation to provide material care for the needy members who have no one to help them, and who are unable to help themselves.

Although we would want to avoid becoming a social institution, preaching nothing more than a social gospel, there is a place for a ministry of help to the needy in the church. James, the brother of our Lord, said that if we say to a brother or a sister who is unclothed and unfed, 'Depart in peace, be warmed, be filled,' and not lift a finger to help them, then our profession of faith is an empty profession (for faith without works is dead). There must also be a ministry of supplying to the basic physical necessities of life, and not just spiritual nurture, when such is needed. But remember: this is a ministry that must be carried out with great caution, so that the church never becomes a society of dependents seeking for handouts and an easy living. 

4. Dealing with Rich Members (6:17-19)

Let us go on to consider one last group that Timothy was given instructions on, and that is the rich members of his church. Here we can observe something quite important: Timothy was not told to ask the rich to give up their riches. There is nothing wrong or unscriptural about being materially rich. One does not have to become poor in order to be more spiritual. The Bible abounds with examples of men who were well-endowed with this world's goods and yet spiritually well: for instance Abraham, Jacob, Job, Joseph of Arimathea, and Barnabas. 

What the scriptures warn however, is that those who are wealthy must be careful not to let their wealth become a trap to them, tempting them into spiritual apathy, coveteousness and sin. Riches and the cares of this life can easily become like thorns choking the seeds of faith and God's Word in the heart of the believer. And this is a problem faced by believers in Singapore with our nation's well-known emphasis on material wealth. And so we must be careful and ready to minister to one another when we see believers falling into this trap. In I Timothy 6:17, Timothy was told to 'Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy.' 

With that we bring our study of this spiritual gift to a conclusion: we have seen that those who have the gift of pastoring and are appointed as leaders in the church need to get to know the people well. We have also seen the different ways in which leaders are to deal with the various kinds of people. And I think you can see that it is not an easy task to shepherd the flock of God. 

The demands are great because of the manifold facets involved in dealing with individuals. It takes skill, courage, patience, gentleness and above all, it takes love. Let those of us who are leaders or who are aspiring to any kind of leadership in the church therefore concentrate on cultivating these things in our lives. For if we do so, the flock of God will be well cared for. And it must be well-cared for.

Ephesians 2:4-7 - The Irrepayable Debt

By Rev Charles Seet

Preached at / Published Life BPC , 2003-06-22

Text: Ephesians 2:4-7

The Scriptures abound with passages that express how wonderfully God has loved us. One of them is Ephesians 2:4-7 'But God, who is rich in mercy, for His great love wherewith He loved us, Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved;) And hath raised us up together, and made us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus: That in the ages to come He might shew the exceeding riches of His grace in His kindness toward us through Christ Jesus.'

I. Expressing Our Debt To God

The words, 'when we were dead in sins' in v.5 show us how utterly undeserving we are of this salvation. What brings out the full extent of God's love here is the fact that He loved us while we were still dead in our sins, incapable of loving Him or doing anything worthy of His love in our state of depravity. And He loved us enough to make us alive with Christ, to raise us up, and make us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus! Dearly beloved, has this world ever known any love that is greater than this? Such great love, when fully known and revealed in all its magnificent glory, should move us to realise how much we owe to God. We should never cease to be amazed at how infinitely indebted we are to Him, for all the things He has done for us out of His great love for us!

Many who have meditated on this have been inspired to write some of the most inspiring hymns that have ever been composed and sung by God's people. Consider a few hymns that are familiar to most of us, which attempt to capture with words, the full extent of the irrepayable debt that we owe to our loving heavenly Father. It was Bernard of Clairvaux who wrote, 'What language shall I borrow to thank Thee heavenly Friend, for this Thy dying sorrow, Thy pity without end? O make me Thine forever! And shall I fainting be, Lord, let me never, never outlive my love to Thee!' (O Sacred Head, Now Wounded, RHC 188)

Isaac Watts, the great English hymnwriter wrote, 'But drops of grief can never repay The debt of love I owe; Here, Lord, I give myself away-'Tis all that I can do.' (Alas! and Did My Saviour Bleed? RHC194). In another hymn, entitled, 'When I Survey the Wondrous Cross' (RHC551), Isaac Watts, wrote these words, 'Were the whole realm of nature mine, that were a tribute far too small. Love so amazing, so divine demands my life, my soul, my all! More than a century later, a writer by the name of Elvina Hall wrote, 'Jesus paid it all, All to Him I owe; Sin had left a crimson stain - he washed it white as snow.' (Jesus Paid It All, RHC183)

II. McCheyne's Hymn

Of all the hymns ever written on the theme of the irrepayable debt, none has dealt with it so extensively as the one that was written by Robert Murray McCheyne, which we know today by its first line, 'When This Passing World Is Done'. This 4-stanza hymn was originally published as a 9-verse poem in the Scottish Christian Herald, May 20, 1837, with the title, 'I Am Debtor.' Here is the original poem:

When this passing world is done,
When has sunk yon glaring sun,
When we stand with Christ in glory,
Looking o'er life's finished story,
Then, Lord, shall I fully know-
Not till then-how much I owe.

When I hear the wicked call,
On the rocks and hills to fall,
When I see them start and shrink
On the fiery deluge brink,
Then, Lord, shall I fully know-
Not till then-how much I owe.

When I stand before the throne,
Dressed in beauty not my own,
When I see Thee as Thou art,
Love Thee with unsinning heart,
Then Lord, shall I fully know-
Not till then-how much I owe.

When the praise of heav'n I hear,
Loud as thunders to the ear,
Loud as many waters' noise,
Sweet as harp's melodious voice,
Then, Lord, shall I fully know-
Not till then-how much I owe.

Even on earth, as through a glass
Darkly, let Thy glory pass,
Make forgiveness feel so sweet,
Make Thy Spirit's help so meet,
Even on earth, Lord, make me know
Something of how much I owe.

Chosen not for good in me,
Wakened up from wrath to flee,
Hidden in the Savior's side,
By the Spirit sanctified,
Teach me, Lord, on earth to show,
By my love, how much I owe.

Oft I walk beneath the cloud,
Dark, as midnight's gloomy shroud;
But, when fear is at the height,
Jesus comes, and all is light;
Blessed Jesus! bid me show
Doubting saints how much I owe.

When in flowery paths I tread,
Oft by sin I'm captive led;
Of I fall-but still arise-
The Spirit comes-the tempter flies;
Blessed Spirit! bid me show
Weary sinners all I owe.

Oft the nights of sorrow reign-
Weeping, sickness, sighing, pain;
But a night Thine anger burns-
Morning comes and joy returns;
God of comforts! bid me show
To Thy poor, how much I owe.

III. The Life of McCheyne

The author of this poem was a very godly Scottish pastor and evangelist gifted in poetry and music. Beside this poem McCheyne had written over fifty others, some of which were published in a book called 'Songs of Zion'. But none of them have been loved or sung by God's people as much as this particular one. The hymn, 'When This Passing World Is Done' stands today as a gem among the pilgrim songs for heavenly people! At the time that he wrote it in 1834, McCheyne was at the point of completing his studies in Divinity at the University of Edinburgh. 

He was only 21 years old then, and would have only nine more years before he would be taken up to glory, for he died before he reached the age of thirty. But within his short life, Robert McCheyne served the Lord with such powerful zeal and ardour, that he became known as one of Scotland's shining lights as regards the preaching of the Gospel of Christ! Like Abel, he being dead yet speaketh (Hebrews 11:4). And his life stands as a powerful testimony for all who love and serve the Lord today, of how we should live as debtors to the grace of God. 

A. His Conversion

Born in the year 1813, the youngest child of a well-to-do Christian family at Edinburgh, Robert grew up with good prospects of becoming a successful lawyer, like his father, Adam McCheyne. He entered university at the young age of 14, and there he soon became an eager participant in the city's fashionable entertainments, spending his leisure hours in card playing, dancing and music.

However, during his years in university, Robert was the subject of much fervent prayer from his elder brother, David, who was the only real Christian in the family at that time, and who longed for the rest of the family to be saved. Robert loved this brother a lot, and alwaqys looked up to him for counsel and help, for David was nine years his senior. And so when David died in 1831, Robert was much grieved to have lost a wonderful brother and guide. But this loss proved to be the most important turning point in Robert's life. He refered to it later as the 'first overwhelming blow to his worldliness.' Through his brother's death he began to see the utter futility of spending his life on earth on pleasure, games, dancing, and much social partying. He missed his elder brother sorely, and longed to have a brother who could never die. And he did find such a Brother, when He turned to the Lord Jesus Christ! The last stanza of his hymn, When This Passing World Is Done, aptly summarises the conversion of Robert Murray McCheyne, as he wrote: 

Chosen not for good in me, Wakened up from wrath to flee,
Hidden in the Saviour's side, By the Spirit sanctified,
Teach me, Lord, on earth to show, By my love, how much I owe.

II. His Service

Two months later, at the age of 18, Robert surrendered his life to the Lord for full-time service. He presented himself to the Presbytery of Edinburgh and was accepted to study Divinity at the University. There, he earnestly prepared himself for the Lord's service. He joined the university's Missionary Association and engaged in visiting the poor in the slums of Edinburgh. He also developed an interest in overseas missions. 

After a short internship, he was ordained as the pastor of the new St Peter's Established Church in Dundee. This church was actually a pioneer outreach work, as Dundee was then a rapidly expanding industrial area at the height of the industrial revolution. The streets were overcrowded with thousands of poor and rough working-class people who flocked to Dundee to find work in the mills and factories there. With God's enablement, Pastor Robert McCheyne was able to build the church up from scratch so that within just seven years, it had a congregation of 1,200 members! The church is there to this today and is now known as St Peter's Free Church of Scotland.

What was the secret of his success in building up the church at Dundee so well? Many biographers of McCheyne's life agree that it was due to two things: His very disciplined devotional life, and his dependence on the Holy Spirit.

III. His Devotional Life

He would rise up at six every morning and spend two hours in private prayer and meditation. Then he would have breakfast and and family devotions. McCheyne fervently believed that a calm hour with God is worth a whole lifetime with man. His closest friend and biographer, Andrew Bonar, writes, 'the real secret of his soul's prosperity lay in daily enlargement of his heart in fellowship with his God. Meditation and prayer were the very sinews of his work.' Daily devotions were so important to McCheyne, that he devised a Calendar of daily Bible readings which would enable a person to complete the whole Bible in a year. And his calendar became so popular later on, that even Charles Spurgeon recommended it highly to his own church! It is still published today by Trinitarian Bible Society as an appendix to their Bibles.

IV. His Spirit-Filled Ministry

The other thing that contributed to McCheyne's fruitful ministry was his dependence on the power of the Holy Spirit, both to make him holy, and to win the lost to Christ. He once wrote to a friend, 'A holy minister is an awful weapon in the hand of God.' This conviction was something he had acquired through studying the lives of godly men such as Jonathan Edwards, David Brainerd and Henry Martyn. He earnestly longed for the power of the Holy Spirit that had been so evident in their lives, to be granted also to him. You can see this in the third stanza of his hymn:

Even on earth, as through a glass Darkly, let Thy glory pass,
Make forgiveness feel so sweet, Make Thy Spirit's help so meet,
Even on earth, Lord, make me know Something of how much I owe.

And this prayer for the Holy Spirit's help was answered in marvelous ways. 

A. Manifestations of Revival

The first was in a powerful revival that swept through his church in 1839. This came about after three years of prayerful preparation, in which McCheyne sowed the seed with fresh Spirit-filled sermons from God's Word on Sunday and during the midweek prayer meeting, and also in his intensive home visitation programme in his parish of Dundee. McCheyne fully realised that just one word uttered in the power of the Holy Spirit could do more than thousands of words spoken in a spirit of unbelief. 

When revival broke out, the twice-a-week meetings in church became nightly meetings as the whole town was moved, and people came in droves to fill the church hall. The fear of God fell upon the ungodly. The Word was listened to with what is described as, 'an awful and breathless stillness.' A visitor remarked that the church there was filled with a 'Bethel-like sacredness' during the services. So packed was the church that they even had to have open-air meetings in the meadows at Dundee! At one such meeting, a heavy downpour of rain came while McCheyne was preaching, but the dense crowd stood right there till the end of the meeting.

During this revival, many who came under conviction wept aloud with tears of repentance that turned into tears of joy, as they gained the blessed assurance of true salvation. And instead of just one prayer meeting a week, there were 39 separate groups meeting for prayer every week, including five groups that were attended and led by children! There were enough Sunday School teachers now to staff 19 new Sunday Schools! This revival was not limited to Dundee alone. It also spread to many other places in Scotland, and was facilitated through the ministry of many other godly men who were contemporaries of McCheyne. It was a much-needed awakening for the Church of Scotland!

The interesting thing about this revival, is that it actually began in McCheyne's church at a time when he was away, and when his good friend, another Scotsman by the name of William Chalmers Burns, ministered in his church as a locum until his return. The revival at Dundee that started under William Burns continued in even greater measure under McCheyne after he returned from his trip, and stayed with him for the rest of his life. 

By the way, the name William Burns should ring a bell to us, as he is the Scottish root among the seven roots of the B-P Movement in Singapore. It was William Burns who became a missionary to China in 1847 and who brought the Gospel to Swatow and Amoy. Out of the Chinese converts who emigrated to Singapore from there, Life Church at Prinsep Street was formed. Before all that happened, William Burns was the pastor of a church at Kilsyth, who came over to Dundee to look after McCheyne's flock during the time that he was away on a mission trip. 

B. Missions to the Jews

This brings us now to the second way in which McCheyne�s prayer for the Holy Spirit to work in Him was answered. It was in the realm of missions. From his days of training for the ministry, he had already felt a burden for the lost in heathen lands. By 1836 he felt willing to go to India and prayed that God would make His will plain to him, but the bouts of ill-health he suffered then showed him that this was not God�s will for him. Instead the Lord placed in his heart, a burden for the salvation of the Jews. 

In God�s wonderful providence, the the General Assembly of the Church of Scotland at that time wanted to send a team of ministers to Eastern Europe and the Middle East (then under the Turkish Empire), in order to make a study of the Jews who lived there, and to recommend the best means of evangelising them. And when he was invited to join the team, McCheyne gladly went with three others, on a journey that was to last for six months. 

During this missionary survey trip, McCheyne's passion for souls was translated into a passion for the salvation of the Jews and Arabs. It was a great heart-ache to him that he could not speak their language, for he wanted to preach to them with the same zeal and fervour that he preached to his fellow scotsmen at home. But after braving the many hazards of this trip, including falling very ill on a ship to Smyrna, McCheyne and company returned back to Scotland and gave such a comprehensive and challenging report that was published into a best-selling book ('The Narrative of a Mission of Inquiry to the Jews'), that within a few short years, Scottish missions were established to the Jews in Eastern Europe, Poland, Germany and Hungary. In later years the work expanded throughout the Middle East, including several of the towns that McCheyne had visited. 

The Spirit of God used him to plant a deep concern for salvation of the Jews not only in the hearts of his Scottish countrymen, but also among the Christians of England and Ireland. In 1840, he went to Ulster to plead for the interest of the Jews. The following year the Irish General Assembly began efforts which led to the establishment of missions to the Jews in Syria and Germany. A year later, McCheyne's visit to London resulted in the formation of the British Society for the Propagation of the Gospel among the Jews.

Let us listen to what he wrote about the Jews: 'To the Jew first. Converted Israel, he declared, will give life to the dead world....just as we have found, among the parched hills of Judah, that the evening dew, coming silently down, gave life to every plant, making the grass to spring and the flowers to put forth their sweetest fragrance, so shall converted Israel be when they come as dew upon a dead, dry world. The remnant of Jacob shall be in the midst of many people as a dew from the Lord, as the showers upon the grass, that tarrieth not for man, nor waiteth for the sons of men.'

We look forward to the day when these words of McCheyne will be completely fulfilled. And we know that it will happen, because the Scriptures tell us that Israel is the firstborn son among God's dear children. We who are Gentile believers owe a tremendous debt to the Jews, because, as the apostle Paul wrote, 'unto them were committed the oracles of God' to whom pertaineth the adoption, and the glory, and the covenants, and the giving of the law, and the service of God, and the promises; Whose are the fathers, and of whom as concerning the flesh Christ came' (Romans 2:2; 9:4,5).

And while our Gospel debt to the Jews is great, our debt to God Himself is even greater! This debt is truly one we can never repay, as Robert McCheyne has so aptly expressed in his hymn, and also exemplified in his life. His was a life that was entirely consecrated to the Lord, and was well used by the Lord even though he had a mere seven years of unceasing ministry on earth. But McCheyne himself would probably testify that even all that he had done can never repay the irrepayable debt he owed to the Lord for all the love and grace that God had shown to him. 

After a preaching tour of the churches in north Scotland in 1843, Robert Murray McCheyne returned home to Dundee at an unfortunate time when a severe typhus plague was raging there. He succumbed to the plague and was promoted to glory, 29 years old. He now stands on high with Christ in glory, and is experiencing what he had written in the first two stanzas of his hymn:

When this passing world is done, When has sunk yon glaring sun,
When we stand with Christ in glory, Looking o'er life's finished story,
Then, Lord, shall I fully know - Not till then - how much I owe. 

When I stand before the throne, Dressed in beauty not my own,
When I see Thee as Thou art, Love Thee with unsinning heart,
Then Lord, shall I fully know - Not till then - how much I owe.

Dear friends, let us join in this pilgrim song, praising and thanking God for the wondrous things He has done in our own life. And since our debt to Him is irrepayable, let us not spare any effort from now on to live our lives in full surrender to God, seeking and doing His will. Then our hearts will be able to echo the words of Robert Murray McCheyne: Then Lord, shall I fully know- Not till then-how much I owe.

Philippians 4:4-9 - Stressful Living and the Christian

By Rev Charles Seet

Preached at Life BPC 10.30am service, 2002-04-14

Text: Philippians 4:4-9

Our topic for this morning's message is one which I believe many of us can identify with: Stressful Living and the Christian. Stressful living has become a way of life for many of us. In the course of having fellowship with fellow believers someone will share about how his workload in the office has increased, how he is now doing the work of 3 or 4 people, how he is under great stress, etc. A recent survey of Asian nations revealed that Singaporeans are now the most stressed of all Asians, surpassing even those who live in Hong Kong and Japan. Now Singapore has scored many 'firsts' in the world, but I don't think that this is a good thing to be first in, because stressful living can affect us quite adversely. So let us endeavour to know how we as Christians can cope with stressful living. I. The Definition of Stress First of all it is helpful for us to know what stress is. Stress is defined as the way you respond physically and emotionally to any change in your life. It produces a physiological response in your body - your adrenaline level shoots up, you become more alert, your muscles get tense, your heart beats faster, your blood pressure rises and your hands get a little cold and moist. Now, stress is not necessarily bad all the time. It is quite normal and it can actually help you to concentrate, focus, perform and it often helps you to reach your peak efficiency. Many people in fact, achieve their best work when they are under stress. What helps us to deal with stress is the fact that most of the time, there is a period of rest and relaxation after the change is over, or after the challenge has been met. This gives our minds and bodies time to be recharged and refreshed before the next change or challenge comes. This is perhaps the reason why the Lord Jesus Himself sometimes took His disciples away from their tasks for a little retreat, as in Mark 6:30-32 'And the apostles gathered themselves together unto Jesus, and told him all things, both what they had done, and what they had taught. And he said unto them, Come ye yourselves apart into a desert place, and rest a while: for there were many coming and going, and they had no leisure so much as to eat. And they departed into a desert place by ship privately.' This is also partly the reason why God has given man the day of rest - the Sabbath day, when we cease from our labours and get ourselves refreshed before the next week begins. II. Causes of Stressful Living The problem comes when you don't relax, or you can't relax when a change or challenge comes along. If you have no time to rest, the unending stress that this puts on your mind and body will be detrimental. It is now widely known that constant stress is linked with many physical ailments - from insomnia, tension headaches, and stomach ulcers, to acute hypertension and heart attacks. One elder in our church recently had to be hospitalised because of severe symptoms of stress! Such ailments are now very common in our fast-paced Singaporean lifestyle. Many who push themselves too hard end up with no time at all to rest or relax. A. Fast-paced Lifestyle and Overwork It seems quite ironical that with our technologically advanced environment, the 'e-lifestyle' that IT makes possible, with every kind of gadget which is supposed to save us much time and labour, and free us to pursue the more important things in life, we seem to be working even harder and having less time than we had before! Have you wondered why this is so? The reason is simple. It is because Technology has heightened everyone's expectations. The increased speed and efficiency that technology brings have made it possible to accomplish so much more than ever before. But this has the effect now of fostering a desire to take on more responsibilities and activities. Through the use of automation and information technology, our limits have been greatly extended. Things that could not be done before, can now be done. And since they can be done, the thinking is: They must be done! And so most professionals, especially in service industries, are expected to work long hours, meet shorter deadlines, do overtime work, frequently work on weekends and take work to do at home and during vacation in an effort to meet their clients' demands and keep up with competitors! Let us be warned that if we keep on bearing such a heavy workload and we push ourselves to the limit, we are going to wear ourselves out and suffer from 'burnout.' This was the warning that Jethro gave to Moses when he was faced with the great task of meeting all the needs of the Israelites in the wilderness. Exodus 18:17,18 'And Moses' father in law said unto him, The thing that thou doest is not good. Thou wilt surely wear away, both thou, and this people that is with thee: for this thing is too heavy for thee; thou art not able to perform it thyself alone.' This led to the appointment of new leaders to help Moses to bear his heavy responsibilities. Dearly beloved, are you facing the same situation as Moses - wearing yourself away by bearing burdens that are too heavy for you to bear? 

I think that many of us may have to admit that we are bearing more than we can handle. We are just too busy doing too many things (This is given a grand name, 'multi-tasking'). If you are too busy, perhaps it is time for you to just pause for a while, and make an honest evaluation of your life. Perhaps you need to be more realistic about how much you can really bear, and you need to cut down your workload to a reasonable, manageable level. Don't try do everything by yourself, but delegate your tasks, wherever possible. And make the right choices - sometimes you just have to say 'No!'

And the most important thing is that you should always remain focused on Christ in everything that you do. Let us be like the apostle Paul: He was a 'one thing' person who said, 'Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.' (Philippians 3:13,14) We notice that Paul said 'this one thing I do' not these 10 things I do. When you are focused on one main thing in life, you are not as likely to end up worried and troubled all the time about too many things. 

Now, what we have just seen - a very fast-paced lifestyle and overwork - is one of the major causes of stress. And it is one that we can control to some extent. But there are other causes of stress that are sometimes beyond our control. For example, how do you handle the stress that is caused by: 

B. Failure and Disappointment? 

Have you ever been paralysed by a sense of failure and disappointment? Have you ever felt so frustrated, so helpless and hopeless, that it seems as if there is no way out? In an achievement-oriented environment like ours, it is not surprising that many should end up feeling like this. People always seem to be under pressure to accomplish things successfully, and to perform well. 

It seems that no matter where we go, we are tested, examined, judged, evaluated and graded, all according to our achievements. Hotels have their star rating, Schools have their point-system of rating, and even hawkers are graded with alphbet ratings! We are accepted if we have reached a certain level of achievement, but rejected, if we have not. That is the way in which the world sees our worth. 

Now, this poses a problem, because not everyone can reach those standards of achievement. Many who try to do so, will fail. And the sad thing is that there isn't usually much sympathy for those who fail. In the eyes of the world, those who fail to achieve cannot be of much worth. For this reason, failure is one of the greatest causes of stress. When one is unable to meet the deadlines, the expectations and standards we are expected to meet, one can easily be driven to the point of total despair. 

Dearly beloved, if you have experienced failure or disappointment, bear in mind that you are in good company, for even a great man of God like Moses experienced this. With the tremendous burden of taking care of the logistics of 2 million people in the wilderness, there were times when he felt really hopeless and helpless. These feelings became especially severe when the Israelites murmured and complained to him that they did not have enough food or water. We can see one instance of this in Numbers 11:13-15. Here Moses expressed his frustration before God, saying, 'Whence should I have flesh to give unto all this people? for they weep unto me, saying, Give us flesh, that we may eat. I am not able to bear all this people alone, because it is too heavy for me. And if thou deal thus with me, kill me, I pray thee, out of hand, if I have found favour in thy sight; and let me not see my wretchedness.' 

The question we want to answer then is how should we deal with failure and disappointment? Here are some steps we can take: When such things happen to us, we must learn to accept the things we cannot change, and to act on those things that we can change. Be sure to learn from your failures and see them as opportunities to learn lessons that will help you later on. Failure is not always bad. They remind you that you are not omnipotent! Your failures teach you what your limitations are, and these are limitations that you must learn to accept. 

And failures can serve a good purpose when they cause you to look up to God for help and direction. When the apostle Paul was struck down by Christ on the road to Damascus, he must have been utterly shocked and humbled to learn that all the great achievements he took pride in as a Pharisee, were actually displeasing to God. He realized that he was not the successful Jew that he through he was all along, but a failure before God! But that sense of failure led to his full dependence on God for all the help and direction that he needed. 

When Joshua and the armies of Israel suffered a humiliating defeat at Ai (Joshua 7:2-9) he came before the Lord, and the Lord not only revealed to him to cause of the failure (Achan's sin) but He also provided Joshua with detailed instructions on how to conquer the city of Ai successfully. Joshua then led the Israelites to deal with the sin, and and also to a resounding victory not only over the city of Ai, but also over the neighbouring city of Bethel! So let us now be discouraged when we fail, but use it to learn from God. 

We have already considered two causes of stress: Firstly a Fast-paced, Overworked Lifestyle, and secondly Failure and Disappointment. Now we come to the third source of stress, which is: 

C. Fear of Disaster and Death 

The fear of disaster and death produce what is called the classic 'fight or flight' response of stress. Fear is one of the most powerful forces that works in the hearts of men. It makes people do things they would not normally do. It brings out the worst responses in people, causing them to resort to lying, stealing, deceiving and cheating in order to escape disaster and death. 

When David was being pursued by King Saul who was out to kill him, he did some things out of fear which he should not have done. He lied to the priests at Nob that he was on King Saul's business, and asked them to provide him with food and with a sword (1 Samuel 21:1-10). The priests complied with the request in good faith, but were later slaughtered by Saul for helping David. David then went over to join the Philistines who were the enemies of Israel while at the same time trying to maintain his ties with the people of Israel. This disastrous union led to more lies and deception by him. What made David resort to all these unethical practices? It was his great fear of being overtaken and killed by King Saul! 

How do you think David should have handled the stressful life-threatening situations that he was in? He should have overcome his fear by trusting fully in God to help him. Listen to what David himself wrote later on as he reflected on all the fears that he had. In Psalm 56 he said, 'What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee. In God I will praise his word, in God I have put my trust; I will not fear what flesh can do unto me.' And we too need to learn how to do this. 

When you find your life being threatened with loss or illness or even death, you can overcome your fears, by trusting that the Lord is with you. It does make a great difference to know who is with you as you go through any painful or stressful experience. That thought alone can remove fear from your life.

Jesus said in Jn 14:27, 'Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid,' He also said in Matthew 28:20 'lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world.' and also said in Heb 13:5 'I will never leave thee nor forsake thee.' Paul the apostle testified in Rom 8:38-39 that nothing can ever separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Dear friends, in the light of all these wonderful promises from God, what should your response be when you are faced with fear? Simply trust in what God has said, and then act upon it. Are you fearful or worried about how the present recession or increase in GST is going to affect you and your loved ones? Are you worried about how your business will perform in the midst of the present sharp global competition, where major companies pull out of Singapore to shift to cheaper places? 

If you are worried then you must trust in the Lord for help, and express your trust in Him in prayer. If you are the kind of person who has the habit of worrying a lot, you should develop the habit of praying and committing all your cares to the Lord. For the rest of this message we will focus on a wonderful passage of Scripture found in Philippians 4:6,7 'Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.'

Let us look at the various terms mentioned in v.6. The words 'be careful for nothing' really means 'do not worry about anything.' When you feel like worrying, remind yourself to pray. And as you pray, your worrying will gradually give way to a wonderful sense of serene calmness and peace. I have personally seen tearful emotional Christians transformed by this peace that passes all understanding! This is an inward peace that comes from God, a wonderful peace that passes all understanding. There is nothing in this world that can bring such perfect calmness and peace to the anxious or worried Christian than to look to the Lord in prayer. Books on Stress Management will tell you to deal with the anxiety and stress of modern living by using de-stressing techniques such as deep breathing and stretching exercises. Some will tell you about autogenics, visualization, biofeedback, and progressive muscular relaxation. Doctors may prescribe tranquilisers, psychotherapy or group therapy. But as the hymnwriter Joseph Scriven wrote: 

'Oh, what peace we often forfeit, oh what needless pain we bear. 
All because we do not carry everything to God in prayer.'

Returning to our text in Philippians, we go on to the next two verses where Paul continues to prescribe practical helps to maintain the sense of peace and tranquillity in our hearts. Very often, the problem of stress and anxiety is started by a thinking process: dwelling on the most negative and unrealistic thoughts. When changes and problems come our way, we tend to think about all the worst possible hings that can happen to us, and if we are not careful this can easily send us into a deep spiral of depression. In order to prevent this from happening, we should apply what the apostle Paul wrote in v.8 of our text:

'Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.' Some have called this short passage, 'the charter for Christian thought.' If we discipline our thought life to follow these guidelines, we will find it much easier to survive all the storms of stress. Now, the thing that we should note that all these terms in v.8 can easily be used to describe the things that are related to the Lord Jesus Christ. All that is true, honest, just, pure, lovely, attractive, virtuous and praiseworthy can easily be found in His Teaching, His Kingdom, His work in our lives and even Christ Himself. And so we should make it a point to think about these things. Don�t let your mind dwell on negative things, or on things that are sinful and worldly. 

But let your mind dwell instead on Jesus Christ, and on things that are related to Him as often as you can. Jesus Christ is the ultimate source of a Christian's joy, peace, contentment, and sufficiency. Meditate on Him often and talk to Him often. In v.13 of this chapter we are told that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. It is through Him that we can cope with every kind of situation in life, whether poverty or prosperity. All this is true only if you already have Christ in your life. If you do not have Christ in your life yet, please come to Him today! No one else can comfort, bless, strengthen and keep you the way that He alone can. And the wonderful part is that He is always there! 

Through some unfortunate events you may lose everything you have - your possessions, your job, your home, your health and even your life, but you can't lose Christ! When you have Christ in your life, you have the most valuable treasure in life. Only He can satisfy the deepest needs of your soul as nothing else ever can. And thus you should seek to find your full satisfaction and contentment in Christ. This will then affect your attitude to the things of this world - Everything else will pale in comparison and diminish in value when you have Christ in your life!

The bottom line of this message is this: Overcoming Stress is a matter of the mind and the heart, in relation fo Jesus Christ. With our minds we should focus our thoughts on Jesus Christ and dwell only on the things that are good and encouraging from Him. With our hearts we must trust in Him to be with us and to help us. Such trust is expressed through prayer. May the Lord enable you to treasure up these things in your hearts, so that you may live victoriously in Him!

Philippians 3:7-17 - That I May Know Christ

By Rev Charles Seet

Preached at Life BPC 10.30am service, 2001-01-04

Text: Philippians 3:7-17

As the New Year has just began 3 days ago, it would be good for us to make some new year resolutions. Making resolutions is a very good practice, because they help to keep ourselves focused on doing those things that are purposeful and meaningful, and that will enable us to fulfill our life goals. But how should we define our goals in life? One of the most useful passages that I have found is Philippians 3, and in particular, Phil 3:7-17 (Read).

This chapter was written by the apostle Paul. Before he was saved, Paul was really giving Christians a very hard time, persecuting them as a religious fanatic official, from house to house, and putting them in prison. You would not have liked him at all then, because he was all-out to exterminate Christianity. You would have been his enemy. 

But something wonderful and strange happened to Paul while he was travelling on a road to the city of Damascus: According to Acts chapter 9, a blinding light appeared in the sky and threw Paul to the ground. Jesus Christ appeared to him and spoke to him. From that moment onward, Paul was changed. He no longer persecuted Christians, but loved them. He no longer spoke against Jesus, but spoke boldly for Him instead. Paul's life goal had dramatically changed.

Let us take a quick look at Paul's changed life goal from our passage in Philippians: In verse 7 he says, 'But what things were gain to me, those I counted loss for Christ.' In v.10 he says, 'That I may know Him and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being made conformable unto His death' and in v.14 he says, 'I press on toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.' What tremendous expressions these are! We can really see here, how zealous Paul had become for Jesus Christ. 

But is that all that we should see here? Should we not also see ourselves expressing the same things? Haven�t we also been saved by Jesus, like Paul was? Do we then have the same life goal as Paul? Some will reply, 'But Paul was quite special and different from us. Christ actually appeared to him in person and that is why he responded to Christ like that. We can't possibly be like him.'

Dearly beloved, these things were written in God's Word not just to describe Paul's goal in life, but also to teach us what our goal in life should be. This is clearly stated in v.15 'Let us therefore as many as be perfect, be thus minded: and if in anything ye be otherwise minded, God shall reveal even this unto you.' In the next verse he tells us to 'walk by the same rule,' to 'mind the same thing' and to hammer home his point, he tells us in v.17, to follow him, because his life goal is set by God to be an example or pattern for us to follow. 

Therefore, the things that Paul said here about his goal in life, are meant to be applied to ourselves. We need to put them into practice in order to live meaningfully and purposefully. And to make it easier for us to apply, I would like to present them in the form of three new year resolutions. These are good resolutions that you should make for yourself as you begin the new year with God: The very first resolution you should make is to:

I. Perceive All Worldly Gains as Losses for Christ.

As we look at what people live for today, we realize that most people have been misled into thinking that they have accumulated much valuable goods, when all they really have obtained are empty assets and worthless investments. None of these things can be kept for eternity.

It makes sense therefore, that a person should be willing to give up these things, for something that really has value both for the present and for eternity. This is why Paul said in v.7 'But what things were gain to me, those I counted loss for Christ.' What were these things that Paul had gained? He tells us in vv.4-6 'if any man thinketh that he hath whereof he might trust in the flesh, I more: Circumcised the eighth day, of the stock of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, an Hebrew of the Hebrews; as touching the Law, a Pharisee: concerning zeal, persecuting the church; touching the righteousness which is the Law, blameless.' Here Paul reveals that he was raised in a very strict, law-abiding, orthodox, pure Jewish family. He was a true-blooded Jew from top to toe. 

And besides that, he also belonged to the tribe of Benjamin, the tribe that had the distinction of giving Israel her first king. In addition, he was a recognised member of an exclusive puritan sect of holy teachers called the 'Pharisees'. Then to top all these credentials, Paul was able to claim honestly that he had faithfully kept every single one of the 613 laws of the Old Testament and was actively leading the Jews of his day in the battle for his beliefs ' by persecuting Christianity!

Paul's 'gains' were obviously very impressive to anyone in his time. Many of his fellow Jews would have loved to have all that he had. He would be like a person today who has attained distinction in every area of life - education, business, sports, social position, etc. and who has a cabinet full of trophies, degrees, awards and prizes to display. But when Paul met Christ, he suddenly saw the real worth of all these gains. He found that they had the same worth as dung! This description is quite significant. It shows that they not only had no value to Paul now, but even had negative value. Like dung, they were foul, offensive, and vile and must be disposed of very quickly.

You see, when Paul found the Lord Jesus Christ, he found something of infinite worth and value. He wisely decided to abandon all of his gains for what he described as the 'excellency of the knowledge of Christ.' Nothing at all can compare with Christ in value. According to chapter 2, verses 9 and 10 of the same epistle, 'God hath highly exalted Him, and given Him a name which is above every name: that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven and things in earth, and things under the earth.'

Dearly beloved, if you want your life to be filled with true value, meaning and purpose, then this is the first resolution you must make. Perceive whatever gains you have made in this world as losses, and stake everything you have now on Jesus Christ! Now this does not mean that you must now get rid of all the things you have. God blesses you with many good things to enjoy in life and to use for His glory, because He loves you. And you ought to be thankful to Him for them. But too often, these things become more important than God Himself. They become idols. You become so attached to them that you start regarding them as your 'gains.' This is where the danger begins. You have them in your hands and refuse to let go of them. If God wants you to let go of them, you think that He is being rather mean and unfair to you. 

But if you consider Jesus to be of infinite worth and value to you, then you would not mind allowing God to take them away or to leave them with you, as He pleases. Whatever things in your life God allows you to keep, must now be used for His glory. And whatever things in your life God does not want You to keep, must be removed and disposed of before they begin to hinder your walk with Him and commitment to Him.

This is what is means to Perceive all your worldly gains as losses for Christ. If you adopt this as one of your new year resolutions your time will be spent more wisely and effectively in things that really matter for eternity. Let us now go on to consider another resolution to make in order to live meaningfully and purposefully:

II. Purpose to Know Christ Fully.

Let us look at v.10 of our text. Here the apostle Paul says, 'that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His suffering, being made conformable unto His death . . .' Is this your heart's fervent desire? - to know to the Lord Jesus Christ? It should be. Dearly beloved were not saved from sin just to fill up a vacancy in heaven or to secure a place for yourself in God's kingdom. You were saved and given eternal life so that you may have a know God and live with Him in a personal relationship through Jesus Christ! 

In John 17:3, Jesus Himself said, 'And this is life eternal, that they might know Thee, the only true God and Jesus Christ whom Thou hast sent.' You can't say, 'I want to be saved, but I do not want to have this relationship with God' They are inseparably linked together. You were made by God to know Him. And you are now saved by God, also to know Him. The question is: How well do you know God? Do you know Jesus Christ whom He has sent? I'm not asking if you know a lot about God or about Christ. Books have been written about God and Christ by authors who never even knew Him at all. What do the Scriptures mean by talking about knowing God?

First of all, knowing the Lord means communicating with Him. God speaks to you through His Word. As you read the Bible He tells you all about Himself. He also tells you about yourself. He tells you what He has done for you and what He wants you to do. And then you respond by speaking to Him in prayer. You express thanks. You express trust. You ask Him to help you to do what He wants you to do. Then He speaks to you through His Word again and give you the assurance you need, and more instructions. And it goes on - a two way exchange process. This is what communication is all about. And you cannot have a relationship with God without communicating with Him.

Secondly, knowing the Lord means Communing with Him. That is to spend time alone with God because you love to be with Him. This involves not only your mind, but your heart as well. Your feelings are stirred up for Him and like the psalmist you will say, 'My soul thirsteth for God, for the living God: when shall I come and appear before God?' [When we partake of the Lord's Supper shortly, our souls should find great delight in personally communing with God. That is why this is also known as Holy Communion.]
Thirdly, knowing the Lord means Commitment to Him. Commitment is the main essential product of any deep and lasting relationship (cf. Marriage). Commitment means having full agreement with God's desires and God's will. It means rendering voluntary submission and loving obedience to God. No task becomes too great for you to do for Him. No cross becomes too great for you to bear for Him. 

These three things: communication, communion and commitment are what Knowing the Lord is all about. Without them, your relationship with Him will remain superficial and distant. And if you want to be like Paul in his desire to know Christ fully, then you must pursue this relationship like him, with the same determined conviction, saying, 'that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His suffering, being made conformable unto His death . . .' By the way, this verse has been chosen as the theme verse of Life Church for the year 2004, and you will see it printed at the top of the weekly every Lord's Day from today onward: 'That I May Know Christ' (Philippians 3:10)

The purpose of having this theme is that Lifers will give much greater priority to knowing the Lord Jesus Christ. It is hoped that this theme that will be emphasized in various ways in the church ministry this year will cause each and every one of us to take more time and effort to develop our personal relationship with Christ, and to make this relationship the most important one in our life. And as you do this, you will find that it becomes so much easier for you to live for Him. 

It is your close, intimate walk with Christ that will cause you to think of Him, work for Him, speak of Him, serve for Him, love others for Him, suffer for Him, and wait more earnestly for His soon Return. None of these things will be a burden to you anymore. No one will have to keep on telling you or persuading you to do these things, because you yourself will want to do them. Christ will be the central theme of your life, your reason for living.

And so please let your goal in life be to know Christ fully. Seek to know Him closely, intimately, deeply, and thoroughly. Abide in Him. Make Him your closest friend, the one in whom you may safely confide all your innermost thoughts and feelings. Remember that at our watchnight service a few days ago we learnt that Jesus has promised, 'I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.' (Hebrews 13:5) Let this promise of His presence in your life lead you into a deeper, closer relationship with Him. You know, we would think it strange for two people to live together for years and years in the same house or same toom and yet never get to know each other well. Don�t you think it would be even stranger for Christ to dwell right within you for years and yet you never get to know Him well enough?

And here's another reason why you should seek to know Christ: The deeper your relationship with Him grows, the more you will become like Him, conformed to His image. This brings us to the third resolution you should make in order to have a truly meaningful and purposeful life. 

III. Press Onward to Grow in the Image of Christ.

The one thing that distinguishes anyone who has known Christ from others is his changed life. The apostle Paul was a wonderful example of this. Before Christ changed him, he was a fanatical Pharisee breathing out fiery threats against Christians, and his blood boiled with rage to persecute them. He was Saul, the ambitious Jew, advancing way ahead of all his contemporaries. But when he got to know Christ, he became Paul, the Christian, and gradually he became so closely identified with Christ that he was able to say, 'I live, yet not I, but Christ liveth in me.'

Dearly beloved, do you know that is the best compliment that any Christian can ever receive from people? It is the compliment 'I can see Christ living in you.' Have you ever received such a compliment? Well, if you have, it's nothing to be proud of. You should thank God if people can see Christ in you, but you should not then think that have already attained the goal of becoming conformed to the image of Christ. The image is still far from perfect and you must keep pressing on toward it. Even the Apostle Paul said in v.13 of our text that he did not count himself to have apprehended his goal yet, but he said, 'this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.'

And we too should all say the same thing. Let us press on to know the Lord Jesus Christ, and grow in the Image of Christ, until Christ is formed in us and the people around us can see Christ in us. Commit yourself to pursue this worthy goal right now, and make it your personal objective this year. Begin this pursuit by making the three resolutions you learnt from Paul this morning: To perceive all worldly gains as losses for Christ, to purpose to know Christ fully, and to press onward to grow in the image of Christ. And may Jesus Christ be glorified in an through all of us both as individuals and as a church.

Philippians 4:1-13 - Coping With Every Situation in Life

By Rev Charles Seet

Preached at Life BPC 10.30am service, 2004-05-02

Text: Philippians 4:1-13

One of the blessings of coming to church every Lord's Day, is that as you hear God's Word being preached, you discover the answers to many questions that have been bothering you. The Word of God gives us the best answers on any question of life, eg. Is there life after death? How can I know about God? Why is there so much trouble in the world today? This morning, we will hear the Word of God answering an important question for us: How can a person cope with every situation in life?

If you were to go out on the streets and ask anyone you meet this question, you will probably get different answers. Some of them will say, 'You can cope with every situation by knowing how to relax and just enjoy yourself' And this is why when things go badly for many people you will find them turning to recreation, or meditation. Some others turn to intoxicating liquor, drugs, gambling, entertainment, or immoral relationships just to get their mind off their trials and difficulties. But these things provide only a quick temporary relief for them, and sometimes they make the problems worse.

Others who are asked the question may say: 'Well, you can cope with every situation in life by having good friends who can help you.' And so they make sure that they have a good friend who is a doctor to heal them when they fall sick, they make friends with a lawyer, in case they ever have to face a lawsuit, and with a computer technician, in case their PC crashes.

But the main problem with this solution is that friends sometimes let us down. We know that friends change as the years go by. Someone who may be very warm and close to you now may become cold and uncaring later on. In vv.2-3 of our text we can see a sad example of this, where Paul says: 'I beseech Euodias, and beseech Syntyche, that they be of the same mind in the Lord. And I intreat thee also, true yokefellow, help those women which laboured with me in the gospel, with Clement also, and with other my fellowlabourers, whose names are in the book of life.' Here were two Christian women, named Euodias and Syntyche, who once worked closely together with Paul and were probably good friends before. But now some disagreement has arisen between them and they were now at odds with each other. Since close friendships even among Christians can end up like this, it would not be wise for you to depend on friends to help you cope with every situation in life.

Another suggested answer to the question is to have much material wealth and possessions. Some people will say, 'Make as much money as you can now, while you can, so that when things go badly for you, you will have nothing to worry about. Money can solve everything for you.' But the main problem with this is that when the real crunch comes, one will discover that money does not solve everything. A person may have all the money in the world, and still not be able to cope with every situation in life. 

Now that we have seen that pleasure, friends and money cannot enable us to cope with every situation in life, we wonder if anyone can give us an answer. And the answer comes from a prisoner in Rome. Listen to what he wrote: 'I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.' (Philippians 4:11,12) Now here was a person who had truly learned how to cope with every situation in life! And he was none other than the apostle Paul. To him it made no difference whether he had much or little. His joy, peace and contentment was always the same no matter what happened, whether he was safe or shipwrecked, free or imprisoned, alone or with many friends. If you were to read the whole story of Paul's life as told in chapters 9-28 of the book of Acts, you would see how calm and peaceful he always remained in any situation.

And so we must turn to Paul to ask him about how one can cope with every situation in life. And as we listen to his words of wisdom that comes from God Himself, this is what he would say: 'Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice.' (v.4) Now please note that the most important words in this answer are the words 'in the Lord'. The Lord Jesus Christ is the source of this profound joy. Let us look also at v.7. Here we see Paul talking now about the peace of God which passes all understanding and is able to keep hearts and minds from being troubled by worry and fear. Where does this peace come from? The answer is found at the end of that verse: Christ Jesus! Now look at vv.11-13. Here we see the apostle Paul talking about his ability to be contented in whatever state he was in. And what was the source of his contentment? The answer is found in v.13, 'I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.'

Let us look now at v.19. Here Paul spoke confidently about God's supply for the needs of the Philippians. And what was the grounds for the sufficient supply of the Philippians? The answer at the end of the verse is: Christ Jesus!

And therefore we have now finally found the full answer we are looking for to the question, 'How can a person cope with every situation in life?' It is through Jesus Christ! Christ is the ultimate source of a Christian's joy, peace, contentment, and sufficiency. It is through Him that we can cope well with every kind of situation in life. Now let us study our text further and consider each of the situations given here. The first situation is found in vv.4-5 and it is: 

I. Coping with Hostility and Persecution (vv.4,5)

In v.5 the Philippians are told, 'Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand.' The background for this is that the Philippian Christians were facing persecution from men outside the church. According to Philippians 1:28 the persecution was so intense that some Christians were even terrified or frightened by it ('And in nothing terrified by your adversaries'). There may have been threats and abuse hurled against the church. In 2:15 we can see how hostile the environment of the Philippian church was, when Paul described it as a 'crooked and perverse nation.' 

When faced with such opposition, Christians may be tempted to fret and retaliate or take certain defensive measures that would make the situation worse. But Paul wanted them to show moderation toward these hostile people, and 'moderation' here is a word that means gentle forbearance, the willingness to be kind and considerate. Now it would be quite impossible for the Christians to do this, unless they dealt first with their own unsettled feelings toward their persecutors by rejoicing in the Lord. Thus, Paul said in v.4 'Rejoice in the Lord always, and again I say rejoice.'

What does it mean for one to rejoice in the Lord? One verse where the same words are found is Psalm 33:1 'Rejoice in the LORD, O ye righteous: for praise is comely for the upright.' This shows us quite clearly that rejoicing in the Lord involves praising Him. When we rejoice in the Lord, our minds must be directed to praise God for all that He is, the infinite and eternal God who is unchangeable in His being, wisdom, power, holiness, justice, goodness and truth. 

When you praise the Lord, you will soon realise how much greater He is than all the difficulties and problems that may plague your life. When you praise the Lord, you will also realise that He is in sovereign control of all the circumstances of your life. A few weeks ago someone sent me an SMS message that read like this: 'In times of difficulties don't ever say, 'God, I have a big problem.' But instead, say, 'Hey problem, I have a big God!'

And so, dearly beloved, let us really learn to rejoice in the Lord always. Let your heart be lifted up with praises God when you face any difficult situation in life. Your whole perspective of the situation will be changed. Rejoicing in the Lord always can keep you going and going in times of sickness, sorrow, setback, and disappointments. In the case of the Philippians, rejoicing in the Lord enabled them to give a moderate, kind and forebearing response to those who were hostile toward them. Rejoicing in the Lord kept them from being terrified by their oppression. 

Now, to give even more encouragement to the Philippians to be moderate and forbearing to their persecutors, Paul adds 'The Lord is at hand.' Or in other words: 'Jesus is coming very soon.' Why did he say this? Because when the Lord comes, all this hostility against Christians will stop. Hence, a new meaning is now given to rejoicing in the Lord - rejoicing in the hope of His soon return!

Let us go on now to another situation which we often need help to cope with, and this is the situation of

II. Coping with Worry and Anxiety (vv.6-9)

Look at vv. 6-7. Here Paul tells us to 'Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. 7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.'

The words 'be careful for nothing' really means 'do not worry about anything.' Do you know that worrying is one of the worst habits that has afflicted mankind? It causes people to lose sleep, lose their appetite and lose their effectiveness. Medical research has proven that worry breaks down our body's resistance to disease, and causes stomach ulcers, headaches and heart problems. When carried to an extreme, worrying brings about severe depression, irrational behaviour and it may even drive a person to suicide.

If you have a bad habit of worrying a lot, the Word of God says that you should counteract it by cultivating the good habit of praying a lot and casting all your cares upon the Lord. As you pray, your worrying will gradually give way to a wonderful sense of serene calmness and peace. This is an inward peace that comes from God, a wonderful peace that passes all understanding. This is the peace that Jesus promised in John 14:27 when He said, 'Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.' There is nothing in this world that can ever bring such perfect calmness and peace to the anxious or worried Christian, than prayer!

Some have likened this peace that comes from praying, to the miracle that Jesus performed in calming the storm on the Sea of Galilee. The strong winds and the waves threatened to sink the boat with Jesus and His disciples in it. And as the disciples called on Him to help them, he just said, 'Peace, be still.' And immediately all was calm and quiet.

One good illustration of this change that prayer brings can be found in the prayer made by Hannah, the mother of Samuel. According to 1 Samuel chapter 1, Hannah was married but had no children. This situation bothered her so much that she cried with a grieved heart and refused to eat. Then she went up to the Lord's house to pray, and there she poured out her heart to the Lord so emotionally there that the priest thought that she was drunk with wine. But after she had prayed, the Bible tells us in 1 Samuel 1:18 that she 'went her way, and did eat, and her countenance was no more sad.' The storm in her heart had been calmed by the Lord. The peace of God which passes all understanding was keeping her heart and mind. And God even answered her prayers by giving her a son named Samuel!

Returning to our text in Philippians, we go on to the next two verses where Paul continues to prescribe practical helps to keep oneself from worrying. Very often, the problem of worrying and anxiety is started by a wrong thinking process: dwelling on very negative and unrealistic thoughts. To counteract this, the apostle Paul tells us in v.8, 'Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.'

Some have called this short passage, 'the charter for Christian thought.' If we discipline our thought life along these lines, we will find it a lot easier to cope with life. Let us study briefly each of the terms that are found here: The word 'true' has the sense of valid, reliable and honest - the opposite of false. Truth is a characteristic of the Lord. The word 'honest' refers to a quality that earns respect and honour from others. The word 'just' refers to what is upright, conformable to the Lord's moral standards. The word 'pure' emphasises moral purity. The word 'lovely' relates to what is pleasing, agreeable or amiable. The words 'good report' denotes what is attractive. The word 'virtue' means excellence, and the word 'praise' means 'worthy of praise.'

Now I want you to note that all these terms can easily be used to describe the things that are related to the Lord Jesus Christ. All that is true, honest, just, pure, lovely, attractive, virtuous and praiseworthy can easily be found in His Teaching, His Kingdom, His work in our lives and even Christ Himself. And so we should make it a point to think about these things. Learn to make Jesus Christ the centre of your thinking. Don't let your mind dwell on negative things, things that are sinful and worldly. But let your mind dwell instead on Jesus Christ and on things that are related to Him as often as you can.

This idea is reinforced by the next verse where Paul refers to what the Philippians have learned, received, seen and heard from Paul, which would probably be all about Christ, His teachings, His kingdom, and His work. And Paul wanted them not just to think about them, but also to put them into practice. He said, 'Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, DO.' (v.9). Right thinking is not much use unless it leads to right action. 

To summarise this section, we can say that: Christian living begins with the mind and the heart. If you want to live as a Christian you must first think as a Christian. And you also need to guard your heart and mind well by praying your worries and anxieties away and by letting your mind dwell on things that are related to Jesus Christ. Having seen how to cope with the situations of persecution and worrying, we now proceed to look the next situation where we sometimes need to cope with: This is the situation of:

III. Coping with One's State of Poverty or Prosperity (vv.10-13)

Let us read v.10 'But I rejoiced in the Lord greatly, that now at the last your care of me hath flourished again' Here Paul took the opportunity to thank the Philippians for sending him a generous gift to take care of his personal needs. But he very quickly emphasizes in the next verse that his joy in the Lord was not at all dependent upon how rich or poor he was. 'Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.' (v.11) Paul had learnt to be content with whatever he had. He found that he could be contented with much, and he could also be contented with little. 

And Paul himself would also never be able to be content on his own strength. He actually needed help to be content. The contentment that he mentioned here came through Jesus Christ, as he says in v.13 'I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.' It was only through Jesus Christ alone that he coped very well with any personal situation - whether it was poverty or prosperity. And since Paul is set by the Lord as an example for us to follow, let us learn to be content with whatever state we find ourselves in. Like him, we should know how to abound and how to be abased. We too can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. 

And we really need this strength now from our Lord, to keep ourselves contented in a materialistic world. Sometimes we see our contemporaries moving up to higher standards of living and we do not want to feel 'left behind.' We are tempted to be discontented with our present standard of living. When that temptation comes please remind yourself that this is all part of the world's value system. Christ our Lord Himself warns us in Luke 12:15, 'Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man's life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth.' Dearly beloved, your lifetime is too precious to be wasted on merely gathering more and more material possessions or great wealth, motivated by unceasing feelings of discontentment in us. 

Human life was meant for much better and nobler purposes than this. We were created to fulfil the supreme purpose of serving and worshipping the Lord. Let us then use this precious life we have wisely: Let us live to serve and worship the Lord Jesus Christ, and let us learn to be content with whatever material provisions He provides for us. The Word of God tells us in 1 Timothy 6:6 'Godliness with contentment is great gain.' And how can we be content? V.13 says: Through Christ Jesus who strengthens us!

Thus in this message we have seen how Jesus Christ is our source of joy to cope with hostility and persecution, our source of peace to cope with worry and anxiety, and also our source of contentment to cope with poverty and prosperity! Through Him, we can surely cope with every situation in life. As we partake of the Lord's Supper this morning let us listen to the assurances and promises that the Lord gives us through His Word to strengthen us to cope with whatever situation you may be facing right now.

Philippians 3:7-14 - Beginning Well

By Rev Charles Seet

Preached at Life BPC 1045am Svc, 2011-01-02

Text: Philippians 3:7-14

Our meditation this morning is on the theme of 'Beginning well.' There is a saying that goes, 'A good beginning makes a good ending.' This is true in almost every area of life. Couples spend much time and expense on their wedding so that their marriage will get off to a good start. Businesses that are started with thorough preparations are the ones that are most likely to succeed. In all building projects laying a good foundation is always the key to the building's structural strength. 

The same thing is true in running a race. The posture that an athlete assumes at the starting blocks can really make a huge difference in the way he will run the race. For maximum acceleration the arms have to be vertical, and body horizontal, the power leg must be in front and the quick leg behind and both must be at a certain angle to the ground. Every little detail counts. Besides physical posture, the athlete's mental posture must also be just right - a slight loss of focus can cost an athlete the whole race. 

In the passage of Scripture we will look at this morning the Christian life is likened to running a race, and as we study it together we shall learn how to begin well. The New Year has just started yesterday. We are all like athletes who have begun a race that will take us all the way to the end of the year. But how well will we run this race and finish it? Will we be able to say when we reach the end of this year: 'I have run my race well, in a manner that is pleasing to God'? I would like you to imagine that you are now on a running track, all geared up for a race in your T-shirt, running shorts and running shoes. You approach the starting blocks and get yourself into position. The starter says: Ready! Then, before he fires the gun he says 'Get set!' That's what we have have to do now - we must get set. In the outline of this message I have deliberately used the word 'set' to describe three settings that we need to make if we want to begin the year well. The first 'setting' we need to make is to

I. Set Aside Every Weight That Can Hinder You

In many kinds of sports and games, one essential part of preparation by those involved is to get rid of anything that may hinder one's performance. Hebrews 12:1 says, 'let us lay aside every weight and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us.' What does 'laying aside every weight' mean? In the language of sports, it means getting rid of any encumbrances that will slow a person down. For instance, swimmers who train very hard to win will do anything they can to reduce the effects of the water's resistance or drag on their bodies. They would shave off all visible body hair (even their eyebrows) - this alone can take 1 second off a swimmer's time for every 50 metres. They would also make their bodies more streamline by exercising away all unwanted fat. If a swimmer feels that doing all this is just too troublesome for him, he would have to face disastrous results in his race - the water becomes like a wall to him!

The same thing applies in the Christian life - we need to set aside anything at all that can hinder us. Those who take the race seriously enough to do this will run very well. But those who fail to set aside every weight will lag far behind, and find it very difficult to keep up. These weights take the form of habits and pursuits that have stayed with us right from the time of our old life before we came to know Christ. 

How should we regard these things? Let us look at Philippians 3:8 'Yea doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ.' The word 'dung' here implies that we should count them not only as having no value, but as having negative value - things we must dispose as quickly as possible.

Many people today live by one very simple rule: The more pursuits they have, the better they are. Hence they will seek after wealth, popularity, power and worldly success. They want to try everything and excel in as many as they can. But what will all these pursuits finally lead to? And what will they eventually gain from them? Many have been misled into thinking that they are investing their time and efforts accumulating much that is valuable, when all they have obtained are empty assets and worthless investments. None of these things can be kept for eternity or can prepare them for eternity. It makes good sense therefore, to give up such pursuits all for the one pursuit that has real value both for the present time and for eternity. This is why Paul said in v.7, 'But what things were gain to me, those I counted loss for Christ.' I trust that you will take stock of your life this morning to see whether you are still carrying any deadweight which should be jettisoned, so that you can run your race for the Lord Jesus Christ more effectively. 

Many years ago a member of a Bible study group I was leading had a great passion for the game of chess. And since he was very good at it, he devoted much time and effort to playing chess at organised tournaments, reading books on it, and keeping up with important chess matches played by international champions like Karpov and Kasparov. But his passion for chess was hindering his spiritual growth - it took up a lot of his time and energy. Most chess tournaments were organised on Sundays, and that meant that he would have to skip coming to church to participate in them. He was also unable to give much time to Bible study, prayer and fellowship because of his passion for chess. Then he said to me one day, 'I realise that all I have been so excited about is nothing but pushing pieces of wood around on a board.' From that point on, he really began to grow spiritually.

Perhaps you may have a similar passion or pursuit which is hindering your spiritual growth, and holding you back from being all that God wants you to be. It may be a desire to be accomplished in a particular skill or talent. It may be a dream to achieve excellence in competitive sports or mountain climbing. It may be a personal ambition to be recognised as someone great. Whatever it is, please ask yourself this question: Is it actually a help or hindrance to the most important pursuit of your life? If it can be a help, make sure that you subordinate it fully to run your race. But if it cannot be a help at all, and is actually a hindrance to your race, then you must set it aside and be firm about it. This is the first setting you must make if you want to begin well. We go on now to look at the second setting that you must make:

II. Set Your Sights on Christ-Centred Goals

Those who want to run a good race must set their sights on their goals and they must not allow themselves to be distracted from them (Athletes call this 'tunnel vision'). Many people fail in life because they have no definite goal or direction. They merely drift wherever the tide flows. They are creatures of circumstance who will accomplish nothing in life. Unfortunately we Christians may find ourselves in a similar situation, especially when we live in our environment where there are a multitude of pursuits and opportunities beckoning us to commit ourselves to them. 

What we need to do is to follow the good example that the apostle Paul has set for us in verse 13 'Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do'. Notice that Paul did not say, 'these ten things I do,' or the like. He said, 'This ONE thing I do.' He was a 'one thing' man. His whole life was dominated by this one thing which he pursued so vigorously, and every other goal he had was subordinated to it.

For example in v.10 one of Paul's goals was to know Christ and the power of His resurrection. Another goal he had was to bear suffering for the cause of serving Christ. And yet another goal he had was to die like Christ. The other epistles that Paul wrote reveal some other goals that he had. For example in Romans 15:20, his goal with respect to his mission work is given: 'Yea, so have I strived to preach the gospel, not where Christ was named, lest I should build upon another man's foundation.' He wanted to preach Christ in areas where no one else had gone before. In Galatians 4:19, his goal with regards to those he ministered to is given: 'My little children, of whom I travail in birth again until Christ be formed in you.'

It is easy to see that Paul's goals for every aspect of life had Christ as its sole object. Like the apostle Paul, we also need to make Christ-centred goals for every aspect of life. In the outline of the sermon I have provided spaces for you to write out some Christ-centred goals you can set for each aspect of your life. Please take some time today to fill this up prayerfully. For example, the goal you can set for your personal life is: To know Christ fully and to make Him known. This would mean giving top priority to your daily devotions, personal Bible study, prayer and fellowship with other Christians.

What Christ-centred goal can you set for your home life? It could be: to make your home as conducive as possible for Christ to exercise His divine lordship in your home. If you come from a Christian family, this would mean fulfilling your God-given role as a parent, spouse or child, and encouraging your family to know and to love the Lord Jesus. If you come from a non-Christian family, this would mean living a good Christian testimony before your unsaved loved ones at home, praying for their salvation and finding opportunities to bring them to Christ.

What Christ-centred goal would you like to set for your working life? Perhaps it is to do your very best in your place of work so that you may eventually bring glory to Him through being known for diligence and integrity. If you are a student, the goal you can set for yourself is to study well, not for the grades or degrees you can get, but to obtain all the necessary skills and knowledge that will equip you to serve Christ better for the rest of your life.

What Christ-centred goal should you set for your social life? Perhaps you may want to build good friendships through which you can communicate Christ to others freely by your word and life. How about your recreational life? The goal you can set for this is to enjoy edifying music and art that will make you appreciate Christ's design of all things. And what goal would be worth setting for the management of your time, your possessions and financial resources? Consider this one: to be a good steward of all things that Christ has given to you. This would mean spending your time and resources wisely, with minimum wastage.

Now, setting Christ-centred goals like these is only the beginning. It will amount to nothing if you fail to carry them out. I would suggest that you make plans to review these goals regularly, perhaps even to share them with a close Christian friend you can trust to pray for you and help you to follow up on them (an accountability partner). 

Thus far we have seen two settings we need to make in order to begin well: Set aside any thing that may hinder you, and Set your sights on Christ-centred goals. We now move on to the third setting we need to make:

III. Set Yourself to Press onward to the End

Listen to what Paul said in vv.13-14: 'but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark.' The verb 'press' in v.14 is in a form that implies continual action - an action that must be kept up with regular, diligent effort.

Some people fail to do this. They begin very well but do not end well because they do not set themselves to press toward the mark. They got themselves prepared for a short-distance race when they should have prepared for a long-distance race. But how do you prepare to run long-distance? The preparation has to start months before the day of the race. You commit yourself to a special diet so that you can shed all the excess fat and build up muscles. You get into a strict regime of exercises, waking up early in the morning to jog or run in the park or stadium. You regulate your sleep and mealtimes carefully, and refrain from taking snacks between meals. The quality that can help you do all these things is temperance. Temperance is one of the two qualities you need in order to keep pressing toward the mark.

Since you are taking part in a long-distance race, the other quality that can help you is patience. Patience is the staying power that keeps you pressing on and on through the whole length of the race until you reach the end. We shall take a closer look these two qualities beginning with-

A Temperance

Temperance means self-control, particularly with regard to one's passions and desires. For the Christian, temperance includes two things: Firstly it means abstaining completely from any form of pleasure that is sinful or that is known to be harmful to the body. Therefore we should never smoke, consume intoxicating drinks, indulge in substance abuse, or get involved in any immoral sexual activity. Any pleasure that involves breaking any of God's commandments is not for us to enjoy. 

Secondly, temperance means exercising good control and moderation in pleasures that are perfectly legitimate for us to enjoy. Always remember this: Anything good becomes bad when it is done in excess. There are many legitimate pleasures and comforts in our lives. Sleeping is one of them. Eating is another. Surfing the Internet and watching shows on TV are also legitimate pastimes. But if we are not temperate we will overindulge and spend far too much time in them. Such overindulgence can affect our relationship with God seriously. Instead of waking up to do our quiet time in the morning, we give in to the temptation to sleep longer. Instead of going to bed early on Saturday night, we sit before our TV screen or computer screen way past midnight and then we cannot concentrate or keep awake in church on Sunday.

God has given you many good things to use and enjoy. But if you do not exercise temperance you will end up abusing those gifts and becoming enslaved to them. Without temperance all your precious time will soon be frittered away instead of being gainfully used to press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus! Time will go by very quickly. Before you know it 2011 will be over and you will find that you have not made any spiritual progress at all. 

If you don't want this to happen, you must set yourself now to press onward to the end by being temperate. This means regulating the amount of time you spend in things that you enjoy most. It means disciplining yourself to stop doing something even though you have the urge to continue, as you are enjoying it so much. But how can you get the willpower you need to be temperate? 

According to Galatians 5:22,23, temperance is mentioned as part of the fruit of the Spirit. Let us turn to this passage: 'But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.' The fruit of the Spirit can only be borne as we keep walking in the Spirit consistently. Hence we must resolve to walk in the Spirit more consistently this year. Now that we have seen the quality of temperance, we go on to the other quality we need to help us to press onward to the end: The quality of

B. Patience

The word 'patience' in the Scriptures means steadfastness or endurance. And this word and its cognates are applied in three different ways in the Bible: Firstly, we need patience in order to endure afflictions in life. (e.g. James 5:10-11; 2 Thess 1:4) Life is not a bed of roses. We are often beset with trials, disappointments and frustrations that make us anxious and downhearted, wishing to be delivered as soon as possible.

Secondly we need patience in maintaining a course of action. For example, maintaining good works, refusing to receive bribes, refusing to compromise one's stand or convictions even under great pressure (e.g. Romans 2:7). The Lord expects us to keep on doing His will even under the most difficult circumstances. He wants us to live as obedient children, maintaining a good testimony for Him before a sinful world, no matter how tiring it gets to keep this up, day after day. 

Thirdly we need patience in waiting for the return of our Lord Jesus Christ. (e.g. 2 Thessalonians 3:5). We are all longing earnestly for the day when Christ will come to take us home to be with Him in glory and to bring an end to all the trouble and strife in this world. But sometimes we become weary and worn with waiting, and say, 'O Lord, how long? How long more do we have to wait?'

What we need is: Patience. If have the patience to wait, and to press onward the very end, and then we will see the wonderful results it brings. But what if we are not patient? Then we may end up displeasing the Lord and falling into terrible sins. Take Abraham for example. God had promised to give him a son. He waited patiently for about 10 years and still had no son. At this point Sarah, his wife became impatient and she urged him to have a son through her maid, Hagar. He agreed, and the results were disastrous. God did not speak to Abraham for 15 years, and when Isaac was born, Ishmael, Hagar's son, became his rival and was eventually sent away.

The awful price of impatience is also seen in the nation of Israel during their journey to the Promised Land. They began their journey well, experiencing God's wonderful deliverance at the Red Sea, and God's wonderful provision of manna and of water from the rock, and receiving God's Law at Mount Sinai through Moses. But after they left Mount Sinai, and had to keep up the process of travelling in the wilderness, marching, and setting up camp from place to place, week after week and month after month, they became weary and discouraged. As a result of this many of them lost their patience and turned against God. They were sorely chastised for their impatience. 

Seeing what a great price we would have to pay for being impatient, let us then strive to develop patience in our lives. We do this by learning to trust in God's power to keep us, in His purpose to try us and in His promise to reward us. Remember what Jesus said: 'Without Me ye can do nothing' (John 15:5) Keep on relying on Him therefore, to grant you His sufficient grace to press onward to the end. And keep looking forward to the day when you will have the joy of seeing Jesus welcoming you at the finish line. As one hymnwriter put it: It will be worth it all when we see Jesus! Life's trials will seem so small when we see Christ! One glimpse of His dear face, All sorrow will erase, So bravely run the race, till we see Christ!

Dearly beloved, let us run the race that is before us well. And make sure that you begin this race well now by making these three important settings: Set aside anything that will hinder you, Set your sights on Christ-centred goals, and Set yourself to press onward all the way to the end.

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Do you face a language barrier when trying to witness for Christ to dialect-speaking relatives? Or do you need to polish up your Mandarin in order to share the Gospel with your Mandarin-speaking friends? This Gospel toolkit will help you to learn how to share the Gospel in Mandarin, Cantonese, Hokkien and Teochew.

There are 15 lessons covering the various topics in gospel presentation. Each lesson consists of a set of phrases, written in English, Chinese characters and Hanyu Pinyin.

To hear the proper pronunciation of the phrase, click on the respective plugin associated with each phrase. When the phrase is read for you, you should repeat it aloud. You can keep on playing back the phrase and repeating it aloud until you have mastered the phrase. Then go on to the next phrase in the lesson.

As you learn to speak new phrases, keep on reviewing the ones that you have learnt. Finally, test yourself to see if you can say the following in Mandarin / dialect aloud: 

Introduction

Why a family resource page?  It has been often said that the family is the most important institution in the nation.  But never has this sentiment been as greatly emphasized in our history as a nation than now in recent times.  Indeed, the family is the most important institution because it is the first environment to which every person is exposed; it is the primary influence of a person, especially in his early formative years.  And failure of the family to influence and mould the child positively has contributed to the moral and ethical breakdown of societies.  Even the expert opinions of sociologists and psychologists point to the truth of this statement.  Counselors and mental health workers increasingly have to rely on Family Therapy to deal with the problems of the clients, seeing as how many adult conflicts and problems are actually conflicts and problems not resolved in youth within the family.  Of course, it is not surprising to find such delinquency and immaturity in the world.  And sadly, it is not surprising to find such worldliness and worldly problems in the church, as families capitulate their God-given rights.  More than ever, there is need for a family resource page, where families can be encouraged and taught to raise up Godly homes and to revive the Covenant family.  

And one of the main emphases of this resource page is on the subject and discipline of Family Worship.  According to the Westminster Directory of Family Worship, we are told that “BESIDES the publick worship in congregations, mercifully established in this land in great purity, it is expedient and necessary that secret worship of each person alone, and private worship of families, be pressed and set up; that, with national reformation, the profession and power of godliness, both personal and domestick, be advanced.”  Herein, it is suggested that national and ecclesiastical revival finds its genesis in the home.  And this is biblical. 

The theological foundations of family worship is in Deuteronomy 4:9,10 where believers are told to “keep thy soul diligently…[and to]…teach them thy sons, and thy sons’ sons when the Lord said unto me, Gather me the people together, and I will make them hear my words, that they may learn to fear me all the days that they shall live upon the earth, and that they may teach their children.” 

It is also in Deuteronomy 6:4-7 where the words which God had commanded believers should be taught diligently to their children, that they should “talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.”  The chief Christian educators of our children are their parents, who have been given this sacred duty.

Psalm 78:2-7 also teaches this, especially when it says regarding the law “which he commanded our fathers, that they should make them known to their children: that the generation to come might know them, even the children which should be born, who should arise and declare them to their children: that they might set their hope in God, and not forget the works of God, but keep his commandments.” 

According to Dr Joel Beeke, “Every church desires growth. Surprisingly few churches, however, seek to promote internal church growth by stressing the need to raise children in covenantal truth. Few seriously grapple with why many adolescents become nominal members with mere notional faith or abandon evangelical truth for unbiblical doctrine and modes of worship. I believe one major reason for this failure is the lack of stress upon family worship. In many churches and homes family worship is an optional thing, or at most a superficial exercise such as a brief table grace before meals. Consequently, many children grow up with no experience or impression of Christian faith and worship as a daily reality.”

“Would we see revival among our children? Let us remember that God often uses the restoration of family worship to usher in church revival. For example, the 1677 church covenant of the Puritan congregation in Dorchester, Massachusetts, included the commitment ‘to reform our families, engaging ourselves to a conscientious care to set before us and to maintain the worship of God in them; and to walk in our houses with perfect hearts in a faithful discharge of all domestic duties, educating, instructing, and charging our children and households to keep the ways of the Lord.’”

Douglas Kelly says that “Family religion, which depends not a little on the household head daily leading the family before God in worship, is one of the most powerful structures that the covenant-keeping God has given for the expansion of redemption through the generations, so that countless multitudes may be brought into communion with and worship” of God. 

So may these resources help all Lifers to build up their families in the fear and admonition of the Lord; that Family Worship would not be an optional exercise but a time of day and activity well-sought after by Godly parents and children.  Amen.

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